It’s that time of the year! Time to make resolutions. Time to make up your mind about things and bring about changes. And if you are going to be a bride this year, this is the perfect time to make those changes.
We understand wedding preps can be stressful. From picking a wedding date to having your wedding on that date, the road is full of ups and downs. And full of excitement, anticipation, and challenges.
As they say, things only affect you if you allow them to. We believe that if you make certain things very clear right from the very beginning, the expectation is set. This is where the New Year Resolutions step in! In order to achieve nirvana while planning and prepping for your wedding, there are a few things that you can decide upon doing.
We have compiled a list of those New Year Resolutions that you can take for your upcoming wedding. It would ensure that everything goes as per the plan. There is no stress or anxiety involved. Read on to know more about them.
1. Thou shall take care of health
If you feel good, you look good. And if you look good, you feel good. Make a resolution to stay happy and positive so that it reflects on your face and body. Eat right, exercise and think positive. And you won’t regret this effort!
2. Taking all challenges into stride
Right from the beginning of planning to the execution, you are bound to face challenges. At various levels and stages. Promise yourself to maintain your calm and handle all the challenges with courage. Never to lose hope or take a step back. Things can get overwhelming from time to time. You have to promise yourself to look through those threats without being much affected
3. Save all that you can, and let it be enough
Let’s face it, you have been waiting for this all your life. Why not have it just the way you have always dreamt about! Make a resolution to save all that you can for your big day so that you can see your dreams come alive. However, on the contrary, you could also think of spending wisely on your wedding, saving every little bit of money for your future in turn. After all, every penny matters.
4. Enjoy this once-in-a-lifetime phase
Before you lose your singledom, take time to relax and enjoy this phase. With planning taking over the happiness and excitement, take time to celebrate your love time and again. You are bound to get busier, however, and it’s important to take time out and go on romantic dates with your partner. Don't let this fun time pass you by!
5. Let it go!
“And the fears that once controlled me can’t get to me at all.” Remember these lines from the movie Frozen? Well, it’s time to apply these into your reality. It’s your wedding. It’s your once-in-a-lifetime occasion. So, you gotta do what you gotta do! Banish the thought of sacrificing to make everyone happy. Let go of the expectations and pressures of others. Let it go and do what you want to do.
6. Be content
And by that we mean, you will not eye an expensive wedding that goes over your budget, just because the others are doing it. Remember that your wedding is about you and your partner. It should be a more personalized celebration rather than the one to make a statement. Stay content with what you have or what you’re planning to have. And that’s Nirvana for you. Keep in mind that your wedding is a celebration of the union of you both and not a show off to the world.
Remember no matter how busy you are, but first things first. Substantial things such as the wedding venue, skilled vendors and professionals are bound to be heavily booked. Some might even be rendered unavailable if you delay your bookings. Therefore it is important to prioritize your requirements for that perfect wedding of your dreams. Do not indulge in procrastinating, take decisions faster and do that booking! It would also help you to save a lot of money.
8. Always keep in mind the main purpose of your wedding
Your wedding is an occasion to celebrate the union of you and your partner for a lifetime. And that should remain the main purpose of your wedding in your mind. Do not let it get overpowered by the stress that comes along with the budget, relationships, society, unnecessary show-off and all the drama. Your wedding day celebrates your love, so as you get occupied with the props, remember to communicate with your partner regularly. And all that love should only increase day by day.
9. Thou shall have a blast!
It’s your wedding day. It’s a day that you have been waiting for all your life. It’s the happiest day of your life, so feel the happiest! Take time to appreciate the table settings you’ve carefully selected and the flower arrangement you specially decided for your wedding. Take a bite of that dish that was created for you and relish the taste. It’s your day and you are allowed to forget about the world to indulge in a romantic dance with your partner on the very tune that you have forever dreamt of dancing to at your wedding! Remember, if you feel good, you look good and your happiness will be evident in all your wedding photographs!
10. Neither a bridezilla nor a pushover
We understand that your wedding day is one of the most demanding days of your life. Keeping that in mind, it’s easy to lose your patience and get carried away. You must remind yourself that it is the happiest day of your life and stay focused on that. Do not allow any mishaps to turn you into a bridezilla! Just remember, it’s not the end of the world! Also, while trying to keep everyone happy do not let them take advantage of you. After all, it’s your day, live it large!
Well, these resolutions are the need of the hour! If you stick to these, you will have great peace of mind throughout. Which will eventually lead you to spend the most exciting time before your wedding. It’s all about cutting out the stress and embracing the anticipation of good times! Need more inspiration for your wedding? Check out the rest of our blog!